Hi readers,. Good Evening to all of you,.
Did you know that everybody can prevent the bully behaviour individually??
Oh, ya,. Absolutely, we can!
But how??
Let's check it out..
Self-guide to prevent bullying:
1- Learning Friendship Skills
•Know how to choose a friend rightly.
•It’s so important since behavioral observation is a major cause of someone behavior, (Kassin, 1997)
2- Learning assertive skills
•Learn to speak and acting in a confident and forceful way.
•Try to improve self-confidence .
3- Exploring ways to deal with bullies
—Get some knowledge how to deal with any probabilities.
—Book an appointment with a counsellor.
4- Improve the anger management skills.
—Anger is a natural basic human emotion that is often used to express negative feeling.
—Learn how to cope with anger
—Learn how to be more patient.
—Learn how to deal with a stressful situation.
5- Protect yourself.
—Beware and concern about your secure.
—Follow a martial art class.
—Never be alone.
—Improve your social relation skill.
Who said we can't prevent bullying?? Love yourself,.
Together we prevent it!
posted by: Nurul Shafini Binti Shafurdin (Fini Pelangi)
Yes, fini. I strongly agree with your first point that “learning friendship skills” to reduce bullying. As we all know, when students get older, they rely more and more on their peers rather than their parents to seek for advice and support. It’s easy to find advice about what to do if a child is being bullied. But, what skills can be instilled in kids that will help prevent the behavior in the first place?
ReplyDeletehmmm...fini, try to read back the posts and i think this post is similar to one of mine.haha~nice graphic anyway.
ReplyDeleteanyway i think learn the way to cope with bullies is quite an effective method in dealing with bullies. in my opinion, one of the main factor that cause the bullying incident from occuring is the ignorant of the victim himself, however, it takes time and effort to learn the skill i think.